But Can You Fight Though?

As we packed up our beloved studio, a space that has been the heartbeat of our podcast for over two and a half years, we couldn't help but reflect on the countless memories, challenges, and connections we've built. This poignant transition led us to consider a different kind of fight—one that isn't fought with fists but with purpose. We explore how often we cling to comfortable struggles rather than channeling our energy toward meaningful change and positive causes. It's a call to reassess the battles we choose and to use our strengths for empathy, love, and collective victories.

Navigating the emotional and psychological terrain of past failed partnerships isn’t easy, but it's essential for personal growth. We explore how unaddressed issues can manifest in our lives, much like a tree growing roots and fruit. By sharing personal experiences and referencing figures like Mike Tyson, we dive into the transformative power of embracing change and letting go of past identities. Through honest self-assessment and vulnerability, we discuss the importance of understanding our roles in relationships and projects, and the unhealthy motivations that can drive us.

Transcript

Fight for the Right Things?

Speaker 1 0:00

all right, I'm finna. Paint a picture for y'all real quick. We're sitting on a big ass couch and boxes everywhere, packed boxes, not just random boxes, packed boxes, bags, you name it. Everything to solidify a move is in this place and we are surrounded by it. We still got the Wi-Fi router and a TV hooked up. I'm looking at my box of kicks over there like dang. I don't even got no real shoes to wear for the next couple of days. The bedroom is packed out so there's no bed. The mattress is leaning against the wall. Duffel bags are waiting to be full of toiletries it's tight in this mug right now. Diapers, diaper boxes, toys what the bassinet wardrobe boxes? Did I say boxes? All of that, man, all of that is surrounding us and the only thing I can think of is this, the last pod in this place how you feel about that I don't know, it's bittersweet.

Speaker 1 1:43

This is where the the pod was spawned oh, yeah, I had to think about that, for a second.

Speaker 1 1:52

this is where the pod was created, yeah, so it's only right that we do one last pod in the place where it was originated, you know? Yeah. So, yo, you tuned in to season three, episode four, of the Can I Talk my Shift podcast, the number one place for self-accountability, self-awareness and leadership in life after loss, with your two hosts, lashawn G Walker and Sam Walker, inspo. Bittersweet moment. Right now, y'all Real talk, I can't even lie. Bittersweet moment. We are moving to bigger and better things. We will let you know the location and all of that in some later episodes, but right now we are packed up and tomorrow is the day that we are moving and we are leaving.

Speaker 2 2:48

we are leaving the a so many great things have happened in these, last, well, almost five, four and a half years yeah, four and a half years.

Speaker 1 3:00

For me it's been that long it's been, it has been four years ups downs, learning, unlearning, relearning, meeting, creating.

Speaker 2 3:15

a lot has happened, but you know that is, you know that's the cycle, that's the and I'm grateful for the journey.

Speaker 1 3:26

Me too, and it continues.

Speaker 2 3:29

You know, this isn't like oh, this is the end. It's literally the beginning.

Speaker 1 3:34

Yeah, it's definitely the beginning. Yo, like from the pod spawning even before that you know, like just getting your feet wet with being an entrepreneur, balancing work, love life, to then creating the life that you want, but also watching the things that you thought you needed wither away, fall off all this chaos and turmoil, but at the same time, the beautiful relationships that withstand the test of time are now blossoming more and you watch new opportunities arise and you, just walking through these doors, you know it's amazing yeah it's amazing, and that's why I gotta ask you can you fight?

Speaker 2 4:25

can I fight?

Speaker 1 4:25

I know it's random, can you?

Speaker 2 4:26

fight.

Speaker 1 4:26

I mean, I got hands your hands are a little heavy. Your hands are a little heavy, though they're nice they saw.

Speaker 1 4:35

They saw hands, but they heavy as shit. They definitely heavy. I'm asking can you fight? Because I'm fighting back tears right now, and I said to myself what's this pie gonna be about this, this episode in particular, since it's the last one. We're gonna leave this good energy in this place for the new people that come and arrive and make this home, or like they're able to call this place home, and we just want to leave some really good energy in this place, and so I said to myself huh, you know, I know a lot of girls be like, but can you fight, though? And dudes be like, you know, but can you got them like? You got hands, which you want to fight. And oftentimes I think about that and I say to myself yo, if we can only apply that mentality to the right things, to the right things, where would our culture be? Where would our microcosms be? Where would you and I be right?

Speaker 1 5:52

right like can you fight? Because I think most of the times, more often than not, we fight and we good at fighting, but we, man, we fight for the wrong shit that was gonna be my next my next question wrong what are you really fighting for yo? The wrong shit man, the wrong people, the wrong beliefs. Right, you feel me like we fight for the excuses more than the actual breakthrough. Say that again we tend to fight for the excuses more than the fucking breakthrough.

Speaker 2 6:41

Breakthroughs plural, right, you know, I mean why you think that is you know, I think people get so comfortable, people get so comfortable in their desolate places, their trauma, that it doesn't even feel like it is. It doesn't feel like home when you're actually fighting for what my great friend says uh, candace Doby, a worthy cause. When you're fighting for a worthy cause, when you're using utilizing that type of courage to fight and it's not even for a worthy cause people are comfortable in that and when you can be comfortable in your trauma, when you feel like that's all you have, you are not even opening up yourself to the possibility of fighting for that worthy cause, using that courage to fight for a worthy cause. And it's sad because there's so much to fight for, there's so much good to fight for, there's so much that we can put our powers, our superpowers, if you will, towards fighting for a worthy cause. You know, combating emotions, negative emotions with positive emotions, combating anger with empathy, combating hate and and loathing with love. People don't want to fight for those things anymore and I and I think or I don't even know if they really wanted to at a point.

Speaker 2 8:44

Maybe there's a few of us who feel that way that we know of than not, but people aren't willing or open to fighting for that cause that allows everybody to win. It's either me or you. It's either I win or I fight you, so nobody wins. That's my personal belief. Um, and I think we've all experienced it. You know, we've all been in a place where we've tried to force something to happen. And we're fighting and we're pushing, trying to make this thing happen. And you know, we turn around a year later, two years later, 10 years later, and it's like what the heck was I even fighting for? Did it even matter?

Speaker 1 9:36

right so yeah I have to ask myself the same question. I've went up down left right, diagonal, in and out, all through it, multiple times and asked myself you know, why do I? Why was I fighting for the things that I was fighting for? Why do we tend to side with the excuses? Why was I siding with the excuses versus, you know, the work necessary to bring about the changes that was needed at that time, versus now? You know, they say God makes no mistakes and I'm like yo for the, for the things that I was fighting for. It was like crazy, because I'm like yo. A lot of the people that I was fighting for them, motherfuckers, ain't even around, no more, right, they're not even around. And I ain't you know, I ain't bitter about it, I'm just like they're not here you spend a lot of energy.

Speaker 2 10:47

They're not here and they're not even here they're not here.

Speaker 1 10:52

Yo the, the identities that I was fighting for don't even fucking matter right now, right now.

Speaker 2 11:03

Because you've evolved.

Speaker 1 11:05

You know what I mean. And so I'm looking at over the past six months. I've had my beliefs shattered and I'm like what am I fucking fighting for? Am I fucking fighting for? There's all these ideas on what I should be as a man, what I'm supposed to be as a provider, as a husband, first and foremost, just as a man standing on his own two and standing on his square first, then in my relationship with the creator, or God or spirit or the universe, whichever one you want to call it, and even that Me having to go and always make sure that I keep it open, because I don't want to necessarily offend people who are listening right then, how I am, how I'm showing up and what my being is in my role as the leader of this household and your partner, and then my role and my identity as a father and provider for the children, and then my identity and my role as a family member, and then a, a friend, and then business, and so on and so forth.

Speaker 1 12:49

Mentor, all of that and it's like, yo Sam, what you fighting for, though, because I know I can fight.

Speaker 2 13:02

But can you answer that question now? That's what I'm saying. The only thing I can tell a motherfucker is like Yo, I know I can fight, okay, but can you answer that question?

Speaker 1 13:05

that's what I'm saying, the only thing I can tell a motherfucker is like yo, I know I can fight, but then they be like well, okay, you can fight, but what you fighting for? And then it's like yo, what? Yeah, I don't hold on, bro, like I'm gonna fight you for asking, for asking me that you know, I mean for confusing me, because I'm lashon, I can fight, yeah, but what?

Speaker 2 13:28

all right, but what you fighting for?

Speaker 1 13:29

where you gonna channel it, though. Yeah, I'm just saying I can fight, that's. That's the only thing. That's good to know. You should love me because I can fight I need more context absolutely right, and that's the thing when I get into this, what we talking about with like spirit and the ancestors and the source, god, god, I know you could fight. That don't matter right where you gonna put the fight. Are you going to put the fight at? Where are you putting the fight at? Are you fighting to get?

Speaker 2 14:12

closer to me or are you fighting to stay the?

Speaker 1 14:13

same. Are you fighting to get closer to me or are you fighting to stay the same? Why are you holding on to them funky ass habits that's keeping you away or keeping you from being closer to me, and you know you're doing it. Or that is continuously pushing you away from me. Why are you so adamant and holding up the identity of you're a fighter and you can fight.

Speaker 2 14:48

What if you don't need to fight?

Speaker 1 14:54

A lot of these questions, you know, for all our avid listeners out there. Yo, I pose these questions to you too because I know a lot of y'all out there feel the same way. I can fight. So because I can fight, then I should have these things. You should respect my fight, but you switch up because what you, what you fight for in the eyes of another, versus what you really want to fight for, you don't fight for that thing. Prime example example we got this podcast. There's a lot of people that we would say that's close to us who doubt this yeah either because they don't understand it and they don't know how it works.

Speaker 1 16:00

they don't know what success looks like for us. They just see others doing it and they think that we can't be as successful as the people that are already doing it. Right, or they just don't want us to do it Because it's outside of their box, right. They're framing of what work really is. This ain't work. This is this looks like fun shit. There's no real lucrative, you know, backbone to this whole living.

Speaker 2 16:33

Doing this ain't a real business right now.

Speaker 1 16:39

I look at us and I say what we fighting for. Are we fighting to do this, to prove them wrong, or are we fighting because we know that we can create an abundant life in the life that we want? Doing this because it's two fights right now. It's like where you at, though I'm asking you you mean?

Speaker 2 17:07

which one do I think we're doing?

Speaker 1 17:09

yeah, honestly, what do I think we're fighting for?

Speaker 2 17:11

I mean, you know, I think in our conversations we always are looking to I always say fight, but we're always looking to make a living being ourselves, find our way, being our most authentic selves and not to prove anybody wrong. I think maybe in our own heads there may be something way, way, way in the recesses of our mind that whisper to us. You know, such and such going to have something to say. You know somebody is going to come to you and ask you blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, give you the riot act. But I think we have come along far enough that that doesn't even matter anymore. I think we have journeyed and we've gotten tired of fighting for our voice in in our world, meaning within our family, within.

Speaker 2 18:34

Maybe friends who have had, you know, playing devil's advocate, you know, have something to say about the way we are going about creating the life that we want, only because it's different than what they're doing, very different, like polar opposite. I got you. So I think that, yeah, maybe at a time we thought, maybe in the conception of doing this oh, what are they going to think? What are they going to think? You know they're not going to believe we're able to make a living being ourselves, doing what we love, doing something we love. You know they want us to have this quote unquote stability, which you and I already know.

Speaker 2 19:24

Even traditional work is not stable right not, not in 2025, right, and we've gotten to a place where we have shut that noise out of our mind, um, or we put it in its place so that we can be diligent and fight for what we really want I'm so glad that that is your perspective why, because I'm over here and I'm like sam you, you got a beautiful, a beautiful wife dog.

Speaker 1 20:08

Because my perspective is not that.

Speaker 2 20:12

Really.

Speaker 1 20:13

No.

Speaker 2 20:14

Even today.

Navigating Failed Partnerships and Personal Growth

Speaker 1 20:16

I'm having a vulnerable moment right now and I'm saying yo nah, sam, you've been lying nigga. Nah, sam, you been lying nigga. The partnerships that I had throughout the years. I've learned a lot from the losses that we took and buried somewhere deep down I wanna make it Just so I know that it wasn't me In them failed partnerships, and I don't think that's a bad thing. I think it's bad or I think that it is unfavorable for me when I don't acknowledge it, because then it grows. It's no longer a seed now it's got roots. And then not only does it have roots, now it's it, it's a tree and it's growing. And then I'm trying to chop it down so nobody can see it, but the tree just grows faster and faster now and it gets to the point where now is bearing fruit, and I'm trying to. I'm trying to cut the fruit off and cut the tree before anybody can see that this motherfucking tree keeps growing overnight yeah bigger than the night, than the day before yeah

Speaker 1 22:10

and I say to myself yo br, that's a fight that I don't want anymore, because what I really want is what you just said. That's what I really want to anchor in, that's the energy that I want to use to propel not only our business of podcasting but also our relationship in our life. But if I'm moving from a place or if I'm not acknowledging the darker side, which is the part of like, nah, nigga, you do want to, you want to be able to, to flourish, so you can smile and know, yeah, fool, it wasn't me, it was you, it was them.

Speaker 2 23:00

You need your. Are you saying there's a part of you that needs your? I told you so moment.

Speaker 1 23:09

I'm saying now, this is it. I'm saying now, this is it the fact that I can come out publicly and be vulnerable and say it because I think a lot of people they not real when they talk about this type of shit.

Speaker 2 23:26

Yeah.

Speaker 1 23:28

Why they create businesses, why they get in relationships with people.

Speaker 2 23:33

Right.

Speaker 1 23:34

Why they seeking God. Because some people will say, yeah, I see God, because you know, because I look to have a deeper, a real, true relationship with the source. But really that's not what it is for you. What it really is is you want to be able to get things that you want and you think this is the way to go about. It is to build a relationship so that way you are able to gain favor and you won't and you won't even use that favor properly if it's given to you.

Speaker 2 24:18

Right. You see what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 24:21

I do so. It's a lot of backwards thinking going on, including myself. That's why I'm coming clean right now, cause can you fight? Hell yeah, I could fight but when you fight for the wrong reasons, see what I'm saying right, yeah like mike tyson in the ring is different. That motherfucker was fighting demons in his life and the demons were strong, which made his fight. Fighting style have to be strong too, because remember, reality is just a reflection of your inner, inner world yeah because remember what he said, something with his podcast too.

Speaker 1 25:21

He was like yo when I let all that go. It was like that's what people knew me for, that identity. But it was like yo once the once the the shit started to clear away.

Speaker 1 25:30

I ain't need to be that, no more, but that's all I knew right and so I look at, like you know, just the previous relationships and things and I say to myself, like dang, you was fooling yourself because I was fighting, but I was fighting, I was fighting split. Remember that thing we talked about was like yo, if, on certain teams, if the coach would have just told you your role instead of you thinking your role was this, this is your role.

Speaker 1 26:17

And so now you think you got a big ass ego because you're not fitting in the role. But no one told you what your role was. Anyway, that was me. So my thing was I was always, I'm always, I was always the go-to guy. I'm always, I was always the go-to guy. Yeah, and it started in high school when I was not the go-to guy, I wasn't used to being a role player. Then in college, same thing. Now it was I'm used to being the guy, but this, the thing that we were creating, didn't cause for me to be the guy, but I didn't know how to not be the guy.

Speaker 2 27:04

Yeah.

Inner Drive and Determination

Speaker 1 27:05

And then other people saw, knew my light was the guy, but they wanted to put me behind them, guy, but they wanted to put me behind them. And now here we are, where it's like it ain't me being the guy, it's us being the relationship, but my reasoning, my movement is from a rocky place that it don't need to be.

Speaker 2 27:35

I got you, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 27:38

If I'm going to tap in with the people, I need to tap in with the people. Yeah, One more man say I ain't going to die in no car wreck. I ain't going to die slipping on no ice. I'm going to die doing all the bone fold, right, right, you can't fake it, can't fake it. Die slipping on the ice, i'ma die doing a bone fold, right, right, you can't fake it, can't fake it you can't fake it, not on this podcast, we not faking it.

Speaker 2 28:02

Nah, you not gonna fake it.

Speaker 1 28:03

So that's what I'm saying so, if you listening out there, our avid audience, you know what I mean them people that like to talk that shift. Ask yourself, because I already know you can fight, everybody got a little fight in them but are you directing that energy from the right place and to the right place?

Speaker 2 28:31

Right. Ask yourself, what are you really fighting for? Because if you're really fighting for that unworthy cause, what are you really doing with your energy, and do you want that same energy coming back to you?

Speaker 2 28:59

because people don't think about that right they don't think about what comes back to them. Whatever they, whatever they put out, comes back to them. I've had to say that to myself more than a few times. You know, I'm not sitting here like I got all the answers or I'm this like completely healed, changed person. I have had to experience some stuff to be able to now say, oh man it, it finally clicks after all this time. You know what was I even fighting for?

Speaker 1 29:40

because it ain't no namaste, it's namaste right here, till I get what's mine right. And that's the difference right. That's that's the full-blown difference in what I be talking about, because you gotta have grit, you gotta have fight, when, when you've been giving something and it's in your head and everything around you is in opposition to that, you know, and then if you're not making the, the decisions, the wise decisions that align with the thing that's in your head, it's only you to blame.

Speaker 1 30:24

You can't really blame nobody else right and so here, here we are right now and it's like I'm I'm really seeing that plays out, how it's played out Right, how I no longer want it to play out, like you can just see the scene, clear as day, I can see it and I'm like damn nigga, like nah, sam bro, yeah, there's some people. You wanted to come around and shoulder a little bit, you know, unbutton a couple of buttons on your collar and say like, yeah, fool, like I told you Right. And again, like I said, I don't think there's nothing wrong with that stepping and using it, but using it in the way that's necessary to um, to create solutions yeah because it just causes drama, drama to mind.

Speaker 1 31:27

You know, and a lot of times that's what we do. When we say, when we, when we think we're fighting for a noble cause, we're really fighting to keep the drama of the heart going.

Speaker 2 31:39

Right, the drama of the mind going. Who may be listening might be listening and thinking when we say fight, that we're constantly and consistently talking about like fighting, like throwing the hands. But we want to make it really clear that this is about your drive, Right.

Speaker 1 32:11

Your will.

Speaker 2 32:12

This is about your will, your determination.

Speaker 1 32:16

It's all. Internal, it's all internal stuff. Yeah, this is, this is what, what is in you four to two, that type, that type shit yeah we're talking about that.

Speaker 2 32:24

We're not talking. We're not talking specifically and literally about going out here throwing these hands. Now is that a part of like you might have to, you know you might have to to put, put them dukes up, and you know. But in addition to that and the overarching, the overarching uh thing we want to drive home in this conversation tonight, today, to you know, whatever time you're listening to this is your drive Like, what are you? What are you? What are you being out here being determined for? What are you out here being diligent about?

Fight for Your Future Self

Speaker 2 33:13

Because if you're out here putting all your drive and all your determination into procrastination, you're going to get that procrastination energy back right back to you. If you're out here talking about manifesting, manifesting, manifesting, and you just sitting on your you know, sitting on your behind, waiting for said manifested thing to come to fruition, then that is the energy you're going to get back. What are you out here doing in order to have the thing that you want to happen happen? Because whatever it is that you're doing, whatever that fight is going towards that energy you're putting out, you're going to get it right back, I promise you. Ask me, ask Samuel, how we know.

Speaker 1 34:12

Telling you there's a, there's a version of us that seems like it is in the distant future, but we can see it clear as day. It's got the body that we want, there's a certain amount of money that we have, there's these things that we got. There's a place where we are, there's people that surround us. We see it all and we, but we see it as if it's like years down the line, but we so desperately want it, but yet we won't fight for it. We won't fight for that version of ourselves today, right now. We won't become it today because we feel like we're separate from it. And then you got people who you admire, who did exactly what you won't do, which is they saw themselves as this thing and they fought for it. They didn't fight the people physically, maybe some of them, but every day they fought To bring that image To the present. And then so they could not Be that thing for a moment.

Speaker 2 35:39

But they could be it for a lifetime right.

Speaker 1 35:42

They fought through the the chatter, they fought through the self-doubt. Right. They fought through the negativity of others. You know what I'm saying Family members, friends, all the naysayers, all the naysayers. And they did their damn thing. They put in the work, night in and night out, no matter the circumstances. They stayed consistent and they got what's rightfully theirs.

Speaker 2 36:25

Right, right. They weren't afraid to be seen at a small level.

Speaker 1 36:41

They weren't afraid to be seen failing right because they were still moving towards the thing right, man, and who knows? I don't even want to say that I do know. You know how, like for lack of better words, pure you got to keep your spirit when you dealing with that kind of shit.

Speaker 2 37:04

Mm-hmm.

Speaker 1 37:07

When you know, like you may not you may not necessarily know how karma works you just know that it's real. And so, instead of doing the get back thing, you continue to just move as righteous as you can.

Speaker 1 37:29

It's a real thing yeah because a lot of us we can get lost in in that and not want to do that, because I'm not saying that that's the best, the best option. You know there's a I the saying I for an eye, for a reason, you know, and some people that energy work for them, but I don't think it's sustainable, like I don't think that can last. Yeah, so one of the things that bro always telling me shout out to bro, you know who you are is that the energy that you're moving from you need to make sure that it's sustainable.

Speaker 2 38:11

Yeah.

Speaker 1 38:12

It's all obtainable. You can cause it's a charge, but can you? Can you use it and have endurance with it? So when you're moving from a place of like revenge, revenge isn't long lasting. Most of the time, you know. You look at like Michael Jordan and we and we watched them document the documentaries right like with shack and penny hardaway talking about him, um, and it was like yo, like he could be having the worst game, and then somebody say something to him.

Speaker 1 38:50

He like what he'd go off yeah but he couldn't go off of that the following game. It was just that in that moment. So you see how, like that negative thing, he used it, but it was short-lived right so what I'm saying is, when you're fighting, you gotta find the thing that's gonna keep you fueled yes, yes you gotta find it and you gotta make sure that it's, that it's sustainable. It ain't gotta be, you know, eco-. Let it be motherfucking fire. Let it be a fire. It ain't gotta be no damn Tesla. It could be diesel fuel, bruh, it's cool.

Speaker 2 39:41

True.

Speaker 1 39:42

But you gotta find it.

Speaker 2 39:44

Yeah. I'm finding it. I'm proud of you.

Speaker 1 39:53

Thank you. That's the reason why the the inconsistency was happening. Because it's like yo. What's the? Why do I fight to stay sober Right? It ain't for it Now, it's not for nobody. No one person is more like yo. I love the way that I feel and I'd rather fight for that every day.

Speaker 2 40:20

Right.

Speaker 1 40:21

Then, because I know what it was like when I wasn't. You know what I'm saying. Like I just know what it was. I know the feeling of waking up hungover, craving and basically contorting your whole day and scheduling your whole day around when you can get a drink, when I can get a drink, making sure that I got enough on me wherever I go, just in case they ain't got shit, because I know I'm going to need it or want it. That's a whole nother.

Speaker 1 40:56

That's a whole other life that I don't know anything about it that I stepped out of you, know I mean so yeah, that's what I'm saying. Yeah, bruh and yeah queen, I know you can fight. I know you can fight, I see it, but why what you fighting for? Where's your grit? Are you fighting for the things that you really want? Are you just fighting the people around you, thinking and tricking?

Speaker 1 41:33

yourself into thinking that you're fighting for what you want to create or who you want to be. Yeah, I'm saying we just got deep on y'all. We need the snaps like in love jones, really oh my gosh.

Speaker 2 41:46

Yeah again. We don't ever want these to seem like you know they. They're somber. No, it's, it's, it's. This is one of those things where it's like you know what. Somebody needs to hear this, and I don't know that it's out here being talked about, but we're gonna talk about it yeah and the same way we know we needed it.

Speaker 2 42:24

I can guarantee somebody out here listening to it is going to be listening to it and nodding their heads like wow, that's me, you know. Let me ask myself these questions, Let me, let me sit with this for a minute. Let me make sure you know this is a gut check for me.

Speaker 1 42:37

Right.

Speaker 2 42:37

You know and I again I am OK with giving these gut checks because I have taken enough of them at this point that leaving 2024 behind, in about what? 15 days? Going into 2025. It is strictly about fighting for what we want and what works for us right and our family, yeah, and leaving behind the questionable doubt that we've had around what people say, because people are not paying these bills, people are not living in our four walls, and the sooner we, the sooner you, our great listeners, can understand and embrace that man. We all going to be out here flying and I just I really believe that. I really believe that when you take that turn to fight for what you, what matters to you, man, it just, I mean, it just makes things so much easier, it makes your journey so much easier. I don't know it. Just we be forcing a whole lot, man, and I just I'm tired of it, I'm tired of forcing you, some of us.

Speaker 2 44:21

Yeah, I feel that forcing to look, be, feel, act a certain way, um, to certain people family members, friends, those of us that you know, those people out there who you know may have been colleagues at one time. Like I'm for what? Like, please them for what you know. That's just where I am I don't know.

Speaker 1 44:55

No, you know. You know where you at and it's okay to be there. I'd rather see you there than you know prior you know what I'm saying. So here's my thing I'm a scorpio through and through, and scorpios have well, scorpions got a thing called a stinger on them right, and that stinger is held up very high and it's controlled with the tail and it's and it's controlled with the tail and it's swift and it can hit quick, and the stinger is the revenge, it's the success of the revenge plot, right.

Speaker 2 45:48

Mm-hmm.

Speaker 1 45:51

So, technically, because it is in my nature to be vengeful, I'm allowed to have like to move from that place, but that's a de-evolved element or that's just a version of me, right, and that's the version that I'm looking to to supersede and ascend from into the next level, which I've done. But there's remnants of the old, of that lower version still that I'm letting go of right here on the pod for show Exclusive content, and I'm doing it so anybody else out there who's dealing with these things can transcend it as well. Because that's what we need.

Speaker 1 46:52

We need more transcendence, we need more truth so we can honestly take a look at ourselves in the mirror and whoever we're conversing with and say yo, I care. I not only care about myself, I care about you, I care about you, I care about you and I care about you accomplishing the things necessary to sustain your life and your family and to make good in the world. And the only way we can make good in the world is if we make good on ourselves and each other Period. You know what I'm saying. And so we really got to uncover where the blocks are so we can really make sure that we're moving in the right way. That's for you. You know what I'm saying, because everybody's way ain't the same.

Speaker 2 47:52

Right.

Speaker 1 47:55

And that's what this is about. I know you can fight. I know you can fight. It's fine tuning it to make sure that the fight is going to the right place and coming from the right reasons.

Speaker 2 48:12

Yeah, man from the right reasons. Yeah, man, that's some encouragement for your behind.

Speaker 1 48:18

That's what it is. Can I Talk my Shift? Podcast, season three, episode four. You can catch all our other episodes on our website, wwwcanitalkmyshiftcom. We're streaming on all podcast platforms. If you're listening on Apple Podcasts, make sure that you rate the show and give us five stars, just because you know what I'm saying. Like should we rock like that.

Speaker 2 48:45

Because you rock with us.

Speaker 1 48:47

You know what I'm saying and do your part by giving us the ratings so that way others can find the show easy or easier, and that way we are making sure that we're building our community of avid listeners and we can continue to bring the content and the talks necessary for your growth and development and to crack that heart chakra open to.

Speaker 2 49:09

You know I'm saying share this out to with your people too. You know I'm saying share this out, too, with your people. Share it with somebody who you know is is fighting out here for the the uh unworthy cause in their life. Uh, if they need it, if they need a shift, share this with them. And if you're listening to it, feel free. We invite you to tag us on social media. You know, screenshot the cover of this podcast and tag Can I talk my shift on IG. You could tag the LG, that is T H E E L L E G E underscore. Or you could tag or, and you could tag Sam Walker Inspo.

Speaker 1 49:58

I-N-S-P. Don't forget the O. You heard Straight like that and yeah, we are so happy to have you here at the end of the show. Like I said, man, it was a quick one and yo, I hope that we left an immense amount of positive energy in this place, since this is where the podcast was created.

Speaker 2 50:23

Yeah.

Speaker 1 50:24

You know, and this is not where it will end.

Speaker 2 50:28

That's for sure, man. Yeah, that's for sure.

Speaker 1 50:31

Yeah, so yo catch us on episode, episode five. We don't got no title yet, but it's all good, you know, and we hope that you got a lot out of this one and the many more to come we'll see you on the next pod big, big love.